One possibility is an early childhood experience lacking in affirmation or expression of loving feelings.
If one cannot ask for what one needs (as a child) then thinking and feeling are badly affected. So the individual is forced into a space of minimal agency where there is no way to negotiate daily life. This is about not having a voice of one's own, instead always hearing someone else's actual or imagined critical words.
Someone else holds the initiative and this feels shameful, and so leads to the swirl experience.
If one cannot ask for what one needs (as a child) then thinking and feeling are badly affected. So the individual is forced into a space of minimal agency where there is no way to negotiate daily life. This is about not having a voice of one's own, instead always hearing someone else's actual or imagined critical words.
Someone else holds the initiative and this feels shameful, and so leads to the swirl experience.
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